I’ve found that abs are attractive to the opposite sex... but nothing like arms. Build your arms and they come knocking!
In also about to end the debate on how to get a strong core and lean abs.... a scythe. Buy and use a scythe in a field.
^^^^ TRUE ^^^^^
Abs don't matter much to me but a man with tanned muscular arms (no, not Schwarzenegger big but decently muscled) telegraph capable and manly. I'm all there. :)