What exactly is a LGBTQ? If she is gay say she is gay. If she is a lesbian then say so. There are 5 different letters in LGBTQ and they don’t all mean the same thing. Bisexual people most of the time don’t go around saying they are bisexual. The B is silent. There is no bisexual pride month. They don’t have bisexual parades. I think most of them would prefer not to talk about it. Q is an ill-defined group. Probably it has no members except people who want LGBTQ attention without being any of LGBT. T is the most different group in that they are exhibiting the appearance of the opposite sex. Most T are men who are trying to attract other men by dressing up as sluts. You never see men dressed as Tootsie or Mrs. Doubtfire. Those guys would never win a drag queen beauty contest.
“Gay” is a perfectly good word hijacked by homosexuals and their supporters. I refuse to use it in reference to them or their practices. What we truly have here is an abominable perversion called homosexuality. Unfortunately we’ve been indoctrinated over the decades to accept their world view and language.