You are entitled to your opinion.
Where I come from and from my time, people believe in vows which are promises made by a couple during their wedding ceremony, symbolizing their commitment to each other.
I recognize that in a modern marriage it's all about "Happy wife, happy life". I think it's one-sided. And Tom Brady's marriage was a perfect example of that.
Women no longer have to stay married to dysfunctional men because they have economic options their grandmothers didn’t.
That's not the topic of this thread. Especially not Tom Brady who had his "****" together lol.
A man who blew up his marriage over broken promises does not have his **** together.
My husband used to drive race cars as hobby. Then he had one very serious incident that bruised one entire side of his body black. He’d have been dead in a non race car.
I could handle the time commitment of being a race widow, but not a real widow. He’s done or we’re done.
I’m a golf widow now :) and I am happier because I feel safer.
Women need safety and when men keep doing (unnecessary) unsafe things, it kills us a little bit inside every time. There is a threshold where women would rather grieve the marriage than grieve the man. It makes no rational sense and I know this, but it’s also a real true thing.