This is America. Women initiates 70% of all divorces.
Women initiate divorces because men aren’t paying attention.
Men cheat more, commit more acts of violence, more likely to have substance abuse problems, or gamble or have porn addictions.
Not saying women don’t do those things too, just not anywhere near the same rates (yet).
The persons who wreck a marriage with the above behaviors almost never file because they just don’t care and can’t be bothered. The person who files is the one trying to hold shit together.
Women no longer have to stay married to dysfunctional men because they have economic options their grandmothers didn’t.
Men generally have never stayed married to dysfunctional women because they’ve always had options.