I'm fine with war. It's in our nature. But I have no interest in exporting American democracy to people who have no interest in it. I'm fine with giving money and weapons to allies including Ukraine and Israel. They are both fighting enemies of the US. But our goal in defeating Iran and Hamas and Russia is not to force them to become Americanized. That's what a Neocon would want. Those people no longer control any part of the US government.
“I define a Neocon as someone who wants to use war to export the American way of life to other countries.”
That’s fine, call it what you want. You didn’t ask me to read your mind, so I told you MY definition, which matches the Wikipedia definition.