I guess it’s not too much different from an expensive bridal registry. I don’t think I’ve ever given a $500 wedding gift though.
Too many want to get married but not be married. Big weddings often lead to short marriages.
Mrs. Eagle and I are lucky (and thankful) that our kids either eloped or had simple Justice of the Peace Weddings. We just ponied up for the lunches or dinners afterwards plus a little cash as a gift.
Hopefully the grandkids who are getting that age will follow in their footsteps.
Screw the registry, though. We'll give them cash and they'll like it.
If they don't, we have a very simple return policy.