I am sure conservative women that take care of themselves with pride in their appearances ,have loyalty, affection and compassion don’t worry about where the real mean are they are quietly sleeping next to one right now with a dog or two between them both sleeping the sleep of the righteous.
Porn is not the issue. Woke mind virus is the issue.
What you said!
Hate to say it, but ... I bet if I met the female author of this article (as a younger single man) I doubt I would find her to be someone who might be a candidate as my soulmate.
Why do I say this? She writes for the NYT. Easy stereotype to form in my head. Not the kindest thing to do, I know. But stereotypes are often deserved based on experiences in life.
Now, let’s suppose she was on the FoxNews, Daily Signal, TownHall or other respectable conservative sites. My stereotype I formed in my head would be different.
Liberal women, Progressives actually, trend towards ugly on the inside, self-centered, mysogenists even if they are outwardly attractive.
All that said, I’ve been married over 47 years to a woman who is devoted to me, respects and loves me, and that is MUTUAL.
A big difference perhaps is the role of God and faith in our lives.
Porn is an effect of the WMV.
Actually, it’s both pornography and the woke mind virus.
The biggest tone deaf moment was when the author said that women were once signifiers of value. She's right but that is back when women HAD value. Now, they're blue haired, overweight, tattooed loudmouths that have zero value and don't enhance a man's life in the slightest. If anything, modern women make men's lives more difficult and that is not what we are looking for.
And finally, there is no photo of the author. That makes me wonder.
As a conservative woman I don’t think it makes any difference. If you save it for marriage men call you “uptight” and a “prude” just as they call liberal women “sluts”. If you want kids they accuse you of trying to tie your man down just as they call women who don’t want kids “masculine” and “not real women”. If a woman works outside the home she’s “a competitor not a teammate”. If she doesn’t work outside the home she’s leeching off his income. Anyone who says pleasing men is simple has never tried dating one!
Like most conservative women I do want to please my man, but to do that I need a roadmap, preferably one that is less complicated than my tax returns. I may not have a fancy degree in psychology or whatever degree this NYT lady has, but I do know that when the goalposts keep moving the team should find another field to play on.
Fortunately not all men are like that. I married an Asian guy who spent the first 14 years of his life in Asia. Smartest decision I ever made. It’s nice being married to a man who doesn’t drink, never gains weight, and still looks 20 at 35, to be sure, but the best part is the lack of whining and nagging too many American men dish out.