Nope. If you dont pay you go to jail. Thats indentured servitude. If you stay married and are poor, you don’t.
And what you say is what women say who want men to take all the responsibility and accountability while they have none. Its easy to have your attitude when you’re not held to face the same consequences.
Why did this male you talk about have sex with a woman he isn’t married to and why did this male have sex with a woman if he is not willing to take care of a resulting child?