Until you have been a real victim in the real world you have no business lecturing anyone about a “victim mentality”.
“Until you have been a real victim in the real world you have no business lecturing anyone about a “victim mentality”.”
Having a bad thing happen is a bad thing.
Letting yourself be overtaken by victim mentality and a separate thing.
One we control and one we can’t control .
A friend of mine was shot protecting kids he was mentoring .
He absolutely refused to be a victim.
He was hurting badly physically and mentally .
But he pushed forward and kept the program going.
I don’t know your story but it sounds like something bad happened.
I hope you are ok.
And I hope you find the healing you need.