When men look for women online or in bars and feel entitled to sex without commitment, they get what they deserve.
Life gives no guarantees; but when men prepare themselves mentally and spiritually for marriage and fatherhood, attend religious services and classes, court women instead of hooking up, and put their own lives in order from youth onward (such as avoiding substance abuse and porn, achieving good credit, and saving for a future down payment), their chances improve remarkably.
You can have what you want in life if you are willing to do the work.
Good post.