When they stop using that word themselves, then I’ll take them seriously about how offensive it is. By saying it’s a racist word, they’re admitting they’re racist, right?
Yep!! I’m a white female. Worked for 25 years in NY State’s prison system. Whenever I heard blacks calling each other the N word, I’d tell them, since I can’t call you that, then you have no right to use it in front of me either.