Whether on a jogging trail, a women’s restroom, or on a date with something you drunkenly thought was a female. You have a right to self defense when confronted with a surprise penis. You just found out you are dealing with a lunatic.
So glad I’m not in the dating world anymore.
It wasn't consensual if the dude was deceiving his victim. At that point it's a sexual assault, and yes, the victim absolutely has the right to self-defense.