I’m going into those years kicking and screaming. When I turned 40, my oldest said that I was middle-aged and I lost it. I starting dying my hair that year. It’s the only “treatment” I do to keep looking young. So far, it fools plenty of people.
I’ve been telling my wife for a very long time she should stop coloring her hair.....I tell her the only person she has to impress is me, and I don’t care.