Posted on 03/27/2025 6:44:18 PM PDT by bitt
My thoughts exactly.
80% of divorces are iniated by women and 90% of college educated women. When a judge tells you when you can see the Kids that’s it. Try going over without permission and see what happens.
There are some in my area that I’ll see at the gas station
or at Walmart ... I can’t imagine how their parents deal
with them - quite a few seem to go for the lowest of the lows
They seem to take the educational brainwashing better, and the bro approach that probably won over more young men turned the young women off. Abortion is more of an issue for them too.
Past time.
Toxic Femininity.
I pointed out to her and her equally liberal dad, my brother in law, that corporations were greedy as hell and if they really could get away with paying women less for the exact same work, they would employ nothing but women. This made them pause because it puts them in the impossible situation of either saying women are not in fact being discriminated against OR saying corporations are not greedy and are not motivated by maximizing profit. It was hilarious watching them struggle with how to respond to that.
I don’t think anybody would blame someone who divorces an unfaithful spouse. The truth is though that as far as divorces are concerned, infidelity is far and away not the leading cause of divorce, women are only slightly less likely than men to be unfaithful, and women initiate 70% of all divorces.
Oh by the way, spousal abuse also ranks very low in causes for divorce. Usually its feeling bored, held back, unfulfilled, etc.
DoodleBeth is open on the forum. I thought I would point that out since it looks like you have completed your transition. Get your self some of that girl power.
Re: women initiative most divorces.
I addressed that already. https://freerepublic.com/focus/chat/4307214/posts?page=40#40
Victimology is now a conservative trait I guess. And people here are chastising these young women who turn left/ blame everyone else for their problems.
That’s rich.
Politics and governance are emotional issues for them, while logic, history, common sense are anathema.
Face it - if they go to bed with someone on the first date, and believe it when he says he’ll respect her in the morning, they’ll fall for anything....
That silent part of yours is bull feces. You simps (Pointing at you) are worse than those entitled females.
Meanwhile, more women are running major companies, and holding higher office in government, mostly due to DEI policies, not achievement level.
Anyone see the problem here?
NPR and PBS, anyone?
You’ve got a point. But it’s not the whole story. It simply isn’t just because men aren’t living how they’re supposed to that is causing this. The odds are stacked against a natural and Biblical marriage and family. Satan gladly uses women’s emotional nature to tear it apart.
I’ve known many good men doing everything right (even from their ex-wives friends view) and the woman will still destroy their marriage and family over a whole host of reasons. Most reasons all boiling down to “their” happiness. This of course turns to unhappiness quickly.
It’s not a victim mentality if it’s true. Yes, men need to do their part and grow up and be men! But shame on you for trying to lay the blame of a broken culture and world at the feet of men.
Freewill.
Your situation is the opposite of what I listed - Men need to stop with the selfishness, the faux manhood, and the idiocracy of running away from their children.
You didn’t run away and you have the children.
Thank you for your reply.
There is plenty of blame to be assigned to wives in failing marriages.
And sure, there are plenty of guys who have tried to save marriages.
But whenever divorce comes up here, there is a virtual conga line of virtue-signalers throwing the bride under the bus.
That is often accompanied by the 70% of divorce is initiated by wife’s statistic, as if it is “prima facie” evidence that it’s the broad’s fault.
That’s all great theater and probably makes the posters feel better. It’s also indicative of why the scourge of divorce isn’t going away.
Over the past 5 years, previously strong guys have lapped up the left’s victimology - rooted in Marxism. “The bourgeois clap-trap about the family and education, about the hallowed co-relation of parents and child, becomes all the more disgusting, the more, by the action of Modern Industry, all the family ties among the proletarians are torn asunder, and their children transformed into simple articles of commerce and instruments of labour.”
White men are now claiming reverse-discrimination for their problems. Guys can’t find moral girls and blame social media. Women under 30 are becoming MORE leftist and we blame the schools.
Maybe, if men of upstanding character called out their brethren for embracing modernity, looked in the mirror, eschewed the feminization of masculinity and shunned divorce as a panacea, we could turn this ship around. Beams and splinters.
Your mileage may vary. Thank you.
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