These women can’t attract men they perceive as high value because those caliber men are not interested in them. So they’d rather settle for no husband, casual dating app sex and/or a vibrator.
49er: A four who thinks she's a nine.
As Kevin Samuels would say, "you can't make this sh_t up" when an obese 40-year-old woman with four kids from three fathers claimed, over the chirps of her ceiling bird, that she deserved a "high value man"; over six feet tall, earning six figures per year, and has six-pack abs.
His recommendation would normally be "buy a dog and die alone".