[know.your.why]

Aaaand...

While you're there you really should read this one too. Have your kids read it esp as they're getting into dating relationships.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/here-there-and-everywhere/201701/11-red-flags-of-gaslighting-in-a-relationship

[tired&retired]

Your second link on “gaslighting” describes Democrat’s political strategy. The checklist is on target.