It’s all fun and games when you aren’t the the poor bastard fightin’ and dying.
N’est-ce pas?
My grandfather: called back in 1939 with 3 kids and sick wife.
My great uncle: called back with one eye already missing.
Two uncles: Algerian War.
One Uncle: American Indochina War
My brother: called up for deployment in the Gulf War, unit told to stand down at the railhead.
You're really barking up the wrong tree.