If lesbians hate men so much why to they either try so hard to look and act like men, or pick a partner who looks and acts like a man?
That is an interesting question. I’ve known quite a few same sex couples over the years. It’s quite striking in physical appearance, mannerisms and behavior that they often mimic a typical heterosexual relationship.
There are effeminate men and masculine women, and it was probably embraced by her. Not everyone has been blessed with good looks. Besides, modern feminism has been teaching women to replace men, and I think this is a good example.
I, myself, grew up as a tomboy and haven’t entirely grown out of it. My diction can be rather male, and am mistaken for one online due to the way I write when I do so casually. Not to say that I can’t be feminine, because I have a closet full of vintage dresses and heels that I love wearing, but I do tend to cobtinue embracing male-dominated hobbies - gaming in particular.
My comments on the attractiveness of other women also tends to throw people off, particularly that of very feminine women.