Ok i agree, if that is all he aspires to. I prefer a chef’s salad. I suppose my point is that nobody can put anybody in a box. I may be voracious, and she may want that. Some other dude may want to get pegged before he rails her. What we each do is our own business and i just count myself lucky i found one more to vibe with. In short, don’t give up. Negativity sucks.
I’m not concerned for myself, so there is nothing to gain or give up.
I’m fully convinced that we are in the Last Days and it may be better to be alone in these times. Many of those who are married are going to be betrayed and abandoned and perhaps even turned in.
My needs on the matter can wait. I have other priorities right now.