The 80% of young men who have been sidelined by the "Chads" monopolizing the "dating" market and building informal "harems" are not at fault for the rotten state of the current Sexual Marketplace.
They bear little to no guilt for the fact that many young women are accruing "body-counts" in the double digits, thus ruining their subsequent pair-bonding ability (men are less affected by casual sex, while women suffer neurological damage from it).
Admittedly: These disenfranchised young men then turn to video games, online porn, and other unproductive activities as an Ersatzhandlung. This is both sad on an individual level and a concern on a societal level.
But it is unfair to blame these disenfranchised young men for the ills of the current "dating" scene.
Regards,
It’s definitely not right to blame the men who are not allowed to play the game.