I’m not, which is why I say such a woman is not relationship material to me. However, I have an eternal kind spirit that allows me to do acts of kindness without being engaged with them.
I used to do this. What happens is you find out people are only nice to you because they can use you. If you cease to be useful to them, you find out what they really think about you. Women in particular only deal with men they arent involved with, for what utility you can provide them. Once you stop, they despise you because they cant get anything they want from you. Now I take care of friends and family that value me and actually care about me, my time is valuable and the one thing I can’t ever get back, so if I spend it on people, its people that are important to me.
Absolutely. I see nothing wrong with helping out a single mom neighbor if she needs it, as long as I don’t become entangled with her.