Oh for sure. Highly desirable men, and women, will often cheat because they can. Cheating is an intersection between opportunity and ability.
However, the point of that video was that these women thought they could tell when their man disengaged from them, but they could not tell that he was in the process of disengaging because she wasn’t attentive their needs.
I had watched the video originally linked here, then read your last post, then went back to the original video and read the associated transcript. It’s like we saw two different videos, and I have no idea what you’re referring to.
I saw a YouTube video by a well-known female content creator in which she interviewed a thousand women. Some of those women stayed with men who cheated on them, but when the men straightened up and fully committed themselves to the relationships, the women broke up with them.
It’s as though the men’s perceived SMV went down when they decided to dispose of their options.