In the vernacular that we are talking about, the women love the attractive alphas and accept the beta husbands.
She gives everything to the alpha, to try and keep him. However, to the beta, she gives less and expects more. The beta deserves less in her mind.
Keep in mind that we are talking about the hypergamic dating world and not all women are like this. Some women realize that the provider husband deserves everything, but not all women believe this.
Unfortunately, "dating" is downstream from "culture" - and our modern, gynocentric culture glorifies and exalts the female sexual power which "The Pill" has unleased.
Modern contraceptives, unfair divorce laws, and abortion have warped the "playing field." And the "Nanny State" - which has become a surrogate for a nurturing, protective, providing husband - has made husbands obsolete.
It is a "cock-up" of monumental proportions.
Regards,
“Some women realize that the provider husband deserves everything, but not all women believe this.”
The virtuous woman, hero worship.