I hear ya bro. Yesterday I thought about buying my wife a bunch of over priced roses and then good sense set in...nah, she'd be pissed at me for wasting $45 bucks, so I just gave her some cash and she went to the local casino.
I’m lucky..my wife of 52 years feels the same as I do. We eat out twice a week usually so that’s nothing special, we travel where and when we want, she doesn’t want flowers, doesn’t like sweets and not a fan of jewelry.... I got lucky !!