You do what you can.
If only two of my four objectives are met I call it a major victory.
Btw—Democrats do not do well when they are social outcasts. It is not that they can be shamed—it is that they can terrified of being snubbed by neighbors and previous friends.
The way you win is flooding the zone—every tactic at once without second guessing yourself or working too hard to define victory.
They’ll wear your criticism as a badge of honor!