I am sure glad you have the problem all resolved for us, even if you had to drag it out of your ass.
Did you know, that were more than one person who was at Roswell and involved with that event, on their death bed, admitted that there was a UFO crash involving alien beings? They were sworn to secrecy, but at that point in their lives, did not worry about anything on this earth.
I used to correspond with General Jesse Marcel. Then he up and died. I can assure you, he was positive the crash was of ET origin.
You believe quite strongly, and have complete right to believe as you do. As to your rude remark, well that's a 'fine' debate and discussion tactic. When beliefs collide, such is bound to happen.
Who is demanding someone swear "to secrecy?"