Define “friend” .
Exactly. It's fine to have differences of opinion about what the best ways are to ensure personal freedom, self-determinism, and the opportunity to prosper by your own efforts. However, if you don't agree that those are immutable goals then it's hard to find common ground.
It's also difficult to remain friends with someone who votes against your well-being.
Define “friend” .
Someone who will help you bury a body without asking questions.