I’m sorry, that’s got to be a tough row to hoe. Hopefully your grandsons will want to know you with passage of time
Thanks - I hope so. My daughter and son-in-law are very smart, successful folks, so I’m pretty sure they’re being brought up right. My wife sends them cards and letters (to our address) - so in case we don’t see them before we croak, they’ll at least know they had another set of grandparents.