There’s never been a conflict where such things didn’t happen.
The friendly fire incident with General Jackson cost the South the war.
Less well known, the Indians attacking Custer at LBH quietly acknowledged killing some of their allies thinking they were “bad” Indians that accompanied Custer's expedition.
I don’t think the Houti’s were in a dogfight with our jet. With our command and control these days,,,,,,,with E-2s, EC-135’s, satellite communications, enhanced radar capabilities, encrypted communications, transponders, etc,,,,this is totally inexcusable.