Unpopular opinion: I think anyone who wants to serve to protect their country should be permitted to.
Find an MOS for these people provided they’re not breaking any laws.
I don’t think right now is the time to start kicking people out of the military unless they’re actual traitors.
You have to have and encourage a warrior culture, having cross dressers around just can’t be and the MOS argument is what gave us the feminized military in the first place.