[Qwapisking]

when it’s your own kids doing this the best and only real world way to show them the error of their own selfish way is to will everything they WOULD have gotten to the most conservative cause you can find but don’t say a word about it. remember the reading of the will at the end of “Gran Torino”. remember who got the car. now go and do likewise.

[metmom]

when it’s your own kids doing this the best and only real world way to show them the error of their own selfish way is to will everything they WOULD have gotten to the most conservative cause you can find but don’t say a word about it.

I've heard that can leave the will open to being contested. The solution is to will them just a few dollars, maybe even $1, and give the rest away.

That way they can't claim they were excluded from the will.