Wow, I'm sorry. Whether you cut them out or they cut you out (or some combination), that's really unfortunate.
This predates the election. My middle daughter, a UC at Boulder physics gradate hasn’t spoken to me or her mom for over 15 years.
My youngest who is gay (whoops I mean bi. These people get ticked if you mess that up..)we text sentence or two about once a year. She still sees my wife, however.
My oldest daughter, might have voted for Trump I don’t know but is liberal on social issues. Since she has 6 kids, we can’t abide with her help with our grandkids questioning their genders and plus she identifies as a “Bad As$ Bit*h” on social media so you can imagine the issues.
After you go though the stages of grief, life is actually much easier and much more peaceful.