selfish self-centered family members that choose to impose their B.S. on family members at family functions are not welcome to either attend the family functions or visit family without a specific invite and PROOF of their mental and emotional stability before attending. NO EXCEPTIONS.
“Estrangement” and “no contact” practices used by family therapists to protect abuse victims are now used as a woke tactic to cover practically anything a family considers offensive—the woke will cut off friends and family perceived to be “racist” (see movie “Am I a Racist?”), pro-life, and now, for voting for Trump. If this happens to you, don’t take it personally. Consider the person cutting themselves off as being under the influence of a cult. They need deprogramming, but they isolate themselves from help. It’s painful, but prayer and fasting for God’s assistance provides hope that change is possible. See Chris Stefanick’s interview with Silicon Valley progressive and multi-millionaire Kailash Duraiswami who was so stunned by Trump’s 2016 election, he became a Christian (Catholic). https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MLyBaWwCY50&t=7s