Those things are what animate the left. So this is really about how leftists date. Leftists cannot suppress their politics IMHO. This is a good and bad thing. It identifies them very easily but brings nothing but conflict if you don't toe their line. Any conservative who inadvertently dates a leftist should be making plans to exit the date asap when the political red flags start waving.
Nope. We gotta marry them and go to work on it. When they don’t need the government they’ll see things our way. It’s just that you gotta go first.