‘Gone’ is the word. My house is GONE, ALL of my possessions are GONE...none of those cutesy insurance terms like ‘totaled’ when they mean badly damaged, but intact. The word is GONE. I admit, having just lost EVERYTHING except my life, I get annoyed when I hear people whining about losing their power.
Prayers for you and your family.
Hard to know how to respond to that. Nothing I can say or do will help in the least. Please accept my most sincere condolences for the little they’re worth and know that prayers are being offered to ask God to console you and give you the strength to carry on. I’m sincerely sorry. So much heartbreak and sadness in our world.