Scottish/Irish ?(I'm Irish - my wife is Irish/Scot).
I "was" a musician...played coronet from 3rd grade thru high school - concert band.
I could play the notes but couldn't make music...never made 1st chair.
like here:
Stars & Stripes Forever - Coronet Auditions Must be tuff to be a Scot/Irish alcoholic....you want a drink but don't want to pay for it.
p.s. Congrats to you and your cousin