All people ultimately choose their own paths in life. To say they have no responsibility for their actions is to deny that person their own inner selves.
They do, but and yes, people bear responsibility for their life choices, but cannot help what others do to them. I didn’t mean to imply she has no responsibility for what she did, but the mess she was certainly was the result of something that happened to her.
And I think sometimes a person in that situation is so lost in their pain, that they can’t find their way out without help.
Which she clearly DIDN’T get.