I am going to assume you are a woman (sorry if I am wrong).
But having once been a 16 year old boy, I can’t imagine it being considered “rape” if they have sex with a 20 year old woman for instance.
There are differences between the sexes that need to be addressed when it comes to the law in my opinion.
You assume wrongly! Anyone advocating for adults having sex with minors needs their head examined....you apparently fit the bill! Like I said...get help...and stay away from minors