The problem is you can find plenty of good women over 60 that aren’t crazy like you describe. The worst are white women under 40. 90% of them are Trump hating, self loathing, angry, lonely, miserable women.
I don't mean to turn this into a "generational war." Yes indeed, I also meet many rabid-woke young women. That is to be expected. Young people are often more liberal, and particularly, the young woke radicals I see are almost always directly connected to homosexuality, gender confusion, a broken home, or some mental illness - common hallmarks of 2024 woke America.
My comment about older white women, who I know, and who have Trump/Conservative TDS is that they almost all came from very stable and socially-conservative backgrounds back in the 1950s and 1960s. I suppose the only answer is that neo-marxist indoctrination, feminism, government social-engineering, abortion, the pill, etc. etc.. did quite a job among a significant minority of women from that generation.