I think if you are a parent, you are going to blame yourself. 80% of parents anyway.
Maybe paying attention to his reported incessantly being bullied could have changed their son?
There are two strongly passionate sides to it but I point to the Oxford, Michigan school shooter case parents:
“Apr 9, 2024 — Jennifer and James Crumbley, the first parents convicted in a U.S. mass school shooting, were sentenced to at least 10 years in prison. AP.”
Whatcha’ doin’ today?
Nothin’
Nothing?
A little target practice.
Take a couple of power bars if you’re set on skipping breakfast. At least drink a little orange juice.
If your parents are mental health experts then they are unlikely to ever blame themselves for anything