Marriage is a losing deal in almost every state for men. Why would a man risk financial ruin and loss of half at the minimum of his wealth and assets to marry someone who has from day one the legal upper hand. Remove birth control and this becomes a suicide pact on his part he is not only on the hook for half assets but at least 25% of his gross pretax income for now upwards of 25 years in some.states. Who in their right mind would do that for sexual activity. At least with birth control it levels the playing field some. What is needed is male birth control, there is already two forms of injectable male birth control why is it not legal in the USA. Professional athletes... It’s injectable testosterone and it’s identical to performance enhancing anabolics. So if it was legal every athlete could claim oh I popped hot for testosterone injections because I’m on birth control yes it’s that bad here for freedom. There is a temporary injectable vasectomy procedure that puts gel into the male tubes to block them until the gel is dissolved but it’s not near as effective as the testosterone shots. Of course a permanent vasectomy is always an alternative and lots of men take that route with frozen sperm as a back up for a change of mind. It’s bad enough for the far right to attack abortion but going after birth control is some crazy Catholic church BS and political suicide.
The man in these pregnancy cases may often escape all responsibility for the care of the woman he impregnates, as well ás the nurture of the child. He simply was a one night stand. I would bet there are plenty of situations that the pregnant female has so many anonymous sex partners she wouldn’t even know who the father was or where he is.
Tell me then, o Wise Ascended Master who sees through the Catholic Church’s BS, what is the best, most purpose-filled life for a man?
Describe it to me, so that I may live vicariously though your exalted blissful existence! Tell me what life I should have aspired to, instead of 21 happy years of marriage with 5 loving children.