You can set up a trust that doles your money out based on how much income each kid earns by the sweat of his own brow, or based on how many hours he works per year even if it's for less less compensation, or how much time he spends in volunteer work, or contingent on keeping a clean criminal record, or how many years he stays married, or how high a FICO score he keeps, or any other metric or combination of metrics you feel like rewarding. Maybe you don't really want to punish your own flesh and blood for past misdeeds, but rather encourage the prodigal son to get his life in order and do better in future. A good lawyer who specializes in trust and estate planning can do this easy-peasy for a few thousand dollars.
Agnes needs a young boyfriend.
Me, I’d go to work legalizing ecstasy for seniors.
I’m looking at The Villages. Mid-October until mid-March. That’s only 5 months of tolerable weather. An 8 month stay somewhere would be ideal. 2 plane flights a year on Airbus not Boeing. With the internet nothing at home will be missed and cheaper living conditions overseas would allow one to lunch on cuisine.
Should I sell my Tacoma if I only need it half the year? Great truck.