The book "The Pink Swastika" offers some insight into this seeming dichotomy.
The Nazis hated weakness and admired strength. Effeminate males were disgusting to them, but Strong powerful men who abused weak males were just fine. They persecuted what they saw as weak pathetic males in camps, but they made the dominating powerful sadistic "bears" into camp guards and such.
The SS was full of homosexuals. Before it became famous, the Nazi party met in a homosexual club in Nurenberg called "Bratwurst Glöckl". Here is a link to prove it.
You have to go about 80% to the bottom of the page.
https://www.tracesofevil.com/2008/01/munich-reich-press-office.html
If you want to see it, better hurry up. Google and the other search engines are putting up a smoke screen about anything linking the Nazis to homosexuality.
You can still the Pink Swastika online using Brave.com, which does not rely on the Google database and has a less biased search engine. Otherwise, you are correct, Google has made it as if it never existed.
https://modernhistoryproject.org/mhp?Article=PinkSwastika
Gays certainly were persecuted by the Nazis (after the purge of Rohm), but it really was an afterthought or a excuse to go after political enemies or people who they thought might cause trouble (e.g., lawyers, academics, members of other political parties). Quite a few of the “gays” imprisoned by the Nazis denied being gay and there was little or no credible evidence that they were, indeed, gay.
The SS and SA, in contrast, was full of the leather scene.