Sorry to hear it. Hopefully you figured it out before the end. It helps to figure it out before the end. I remember posting a very personal account about the issue when I nearly died of cancer. The vast majority on the board were women. Probably 85/15. The women very much thought I was creating the behavior out of fantasy. They became venomous over my truthfulness over a situation. I ended up deleting and just disappeared. Women can only see men as pure evil but women have a clear path. So women psychos get the the ability to hide behind femininity. They are in effect super predators.
You wouldn’t believe the evil crap my ex pulled before she died.
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