Yeah pretty much which is the delusion today. One of the words used today is 49er. A 4 that thinks they are a 9 because of all the simping and beta male thirst.
Just my personal "take" on the matter.
Pre-Wall women have, in actuality, a barely concealed distaste and contempt for those beta orbiters - in their eyes, they're only good for extracting resources, use as "emotional tampons," and as "muscle" on furniture-moving day - oh, and of course, to then conveniently "wife them up" when the women have aged out / entered the "Danger Zone."
The overarching mainstream cultural narrative, running totally counter to all common sense - that "casual sex empowers women," "Lizzo is a queen," "single mothers are stunning and brave," and "I am the table" - is the true primary cause of their delusion.
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