Hey MM. Women are the gatekeepers to sex. Men are gate keepers to commitment and resources. If they give those away for nothing, the opposite sex views them as low value. Its hard wired biology.
Claiming women are the gatekeepers of sex, is only an excuse for man’s lack of self-control.
It’s just blame shifting the responsibility for sexual purity onto women.
If men want virgins for wives, then they need to stop hypocritically pressuring women into having sex with them and then looking on them with contempt for giving them what they pushed for. Men condemn in women (sleeping around freely) behavior they justify in themselves.
It’s hypocrisy. If men want pure women, give them pure men.