It’s certainly a different world than where our great grandparents grew up.
Most people tended to live where they grew up instead of moving to the big city once they were done with high school.
You knew that you’d better find someone ‘good enough’ by the time you reached your 20s, or else you were going to be out of luck, and no woman wanted to be an ‘old maid’.
Right...it was choose from your local circle and don’t take too long. All those dynamics are gone.