And basically harry was saying to woman “don’t spread your legs for every guy you meet and you may end up a lot happier down the road. Nothing wrong with that.
There is a lot wrong also with — settling with just anyone too soon, or getting married out of pressure and then divorced (with kids) later.
Divorce is extremely bad, and alone the root cause of so many societal ills. Scripture makes clear outright with the words “God hates divorce.” Yet people of faith do it as much as everyone else.