Yes, younger women can be infertile, and so can men. An sometimes women can have children fine at quite a late age. But we shouldn’t be lying to women about the reality. What do you mean from a secular standpoint? All of this is secular.
All I know is, my conservative dad raised me to appreciate trailblazers like Amelia Earhart, singers like Pat Benatar…Politicians like Margaret Thatcher, and wanted me to explore all kinds of interests. I don’t think everything has to be “dropped” for the home - and maybe that’s not what Butker meant but that’s how it came off.