[subterfuge]

Those Bushes fooled me too and it ticks me off to no end. He didn’t fool my younger sister, who passed away a few years ago, and I was furious with her for calling him “Bushie.” I never got to apologize for being so upset with her. Put me in the Never-Bush camp. Forever.

[Tench_Coxe]

You can't really beat yourself up about that. There has been a lot of things that have come to light that we were kept in the dark about.
However, we can make it right knowing what we know now. Unfortunately, it is going to take time and effort to rectify things.